“We are all part of this shared struggle”

Image Credit: Emergency Coalition for Yoon Suk-yeol’s Immediate Resignation and Social Reform (윤석열즉각퇴진·사회대개혁 비상행동)

On January 2, 2025, after a dramatic six-hour standoff with Yoon’s security forces and supporters, investigative authorities suspended their attempt to arrest him. The following day, demanding urgent action to hold Yoon and his party accountable for the insurrection, the Korean Confederation of Trade Unions announced a two-day overnight protest near the presidential residence in Hannam-dong, an affluent neighborhood of Seoul. That night, over two million protesters in Seoul braved the biting cold and filled the streets. Like the large-scale protests that had occurred almost nightly over the past month, the demonstration was peacefully and effectively organized.

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Image Credit: Emergency Coalition for Yoon Suk-yeol’s Immediate Resignation and Social Reform (윤석열즉각퇴진·사회대개혁 비상행동)

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Hello, I’m a citizen who just turned 30 this winter. This may be a difficult thing to say at the beginning: I am a survivor of domestic violence. Since graduating high school, I’ve never really been able to build a professional career. I am relatively undereducated and barely managing my life. Perhaps because of that, I’ve never felt that I had the right to stand on equal footing with others.

I’ve grown used to being beaten down. When hit, I bow down; when told to stay quiet, I stay quiet; when told to stay still, I remain still. That inertia has become my default, and now I just lie down and stay put. The reason I don’t get up is simple: there’s no one to hold my hand when I stumble. I know better than anyone that raising my voice alone won’t change society.

When I share my story, I often hear comments like: “Isn’t it because you’re lazy and dumb? Everyone puts up with that much—why can’t you? You just need to try harder. Have you ever considered that maybe you’re the wrong one?” People like me, who are seen as neither ordinary nor normal, are treated as the problem simply for existing. We are viewed as burdens to society and obstacles to progress.

Because of this stigmatization, I have never felt a sense of belonging. I don’t feel worthy of standing under any flag or cheering with a light stick for something I love. Just as the world has ignored me, I want to ignore the world. Concepts like “love” and “solidarity” feel distant, almost unreachable. 

And yet, as I say goodbye to my twenties—a decade others once called “precious youth” but one I feel I’ve completely wasted—I find myself standing here. Why?

I am a part of you, and you are a part of me. Here, I’ve met people like me—people who wouldn’t hate me—and through all of you, I’ve finally found the courage to love this cruel world. In the past, even when standing under a flag that represented a part of who I am, I couldn’t fully feel at ease. But now, as someone who is part of a movement that embraces all forms of vulnerability, minority identities, and diversity, I finally feel a sense of peace under every flag here.

The state may be lagging behind, but we have already surpassed its legislative, judicial, and executive branches to build a democratic society—one where we understand each other’s pain and share a vision for the future. I see a connection between survivors of domestic violence and survivors of state violence. I recall a time when resistance, hope, and love felt futile in this world. But now, I know they are anything but futile.

To everyone here, I want to express my gratitude. And I have one request: that you will continue to stand by those who feel alone, ensuring no one has to face loneliness by themselves. Until the day a truly democratic state becomes our home, let us remain resilient and move forward together. To conclude, instead of ending with “tujaeng [meaning “a call to fight,” a closing word that has been used by many protesters],” let us take a moment of silence. Thank you.

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